Finding My Purpose

Being single means no distractions, no one to focus on, and no one to blame. Just me—and everything I have been avoiding. That is where Finding My Purpose: A Soul Searching Workbook came in for me. 

Not as a quick fix. Not as a “move on in 30 days” promise. But as a way to finally sit with myself… and understand what I have been doing, and why.

Here is the link to the Amazon page:  Finding My Purpose: A Soul Searching Workbook: Galvez, Ruby: Amazon.com: Books

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